| Decision Situations | Questions to Consider |
| 1. Wedding | When? Where? Type of ceremony and reception? Which guests? Honeymoon? |
| 2. Home | Location? Rent, buy, or live with relatives? |
| 3. Home maintenance | Who cleans? Fixes up? Supervises the plumber? |
| 4. Careers | Who will work? At what jobs? |
| 5. Budget | What to buy? How much to save? Who manages household finances? |
| 6. Food | Eat at home or eat out? Who cooks? Who shops? What menus? |
| 7. Recreation | Spectator vs. participant activities? Together or individually? |
| 8. Holidays | How to celebrate? Stay at home? Visit relatives? Travel? |
| 9. Vacations | Stay at home or travel? What activities? How much to spend? |
| 10. Children | Will you have children? How many? Timing? Child care? |
| 11. Disciplining children | What methods? Whose responsibility? |
| 12. Children's education | Public or private? Financing? Parents' roles? |
| 13. Children's activities | Which ones: sports, clubs, arts? Transportation? Supervision? Financing? |
| 14. Promotion or job transfer | Impact on spouse? Adjust household responsibilities? Accept or reject? |
| 15. Community activities | Which ones: church, service clubs, artistic, athletic, political, school groups, and so on. Degree of involvement? Shared or individual? |
| 16. Retirement | When? Where? Activities? Finances? |
| 17. Care of elderly parents | Live independently? Live with you? Nursing home? Hospital? Finances? Impact on you, your spouse, your children? |
| 18. Care of chronically ill spouse | At home? Outside help? Nursing home? Hospital? Finances? |